The principle is to not 'reward' the crying at any point. Tonight I am planning to attempt to beat Natalie to the 'wake up' punch by setting my alarm and dream feeding her. If she wakes before the scheduled times, she will have to cry. We will go in and check on her at consistent intervals so she knows we haven't abandoned her, but we will not reward her behavior by giving in and picking her up. Part of the problem is that we have always given in with her, it is the easy way out at 2:00 am, she eats for 5 minutes and drifts back to sleep. More sleep for all, win-win right?! Not at all since she has increased the number of feedings at night, relying on me to help her back to sleep. It's now time for her to learn to put herself back to sleep.
I put her to bed an hour earlier than normal, she went to bed wide awake. She cried hard for 5 minutes then fussed for another 6 minutes before drifting off to sleep. This was nearly two hours ago. She is still sleeping, She has always been able to initially go down on her own, the problem has been in the middle of the night.I am praying harder than ever that it is only a few days of
I have all my supplies ready, my journal, clock and book (it has a section for panicking, it's bookmarked). I would really appreciate prayers and encouragement as we begin what we hope will be better sleep for all.
Best of luck!
ReplyDeleteYou can do it!! Just stay tough! She'll appreciate you for it, especially once she gets a full night sleep. Not only you need it--she does too!! Love you! :D
ReplyDeleteGood luck! You can all do it! My motto with SleepEasy is and was: short term pain for long term gain. It SUCKS, it is hard...but you will all be happier with better sleep. I am excited to read your progress and am wishing you all well! I just took Braden's soother way when he turned 2 over the weekend, and it's even harder hearing them cry when they can talk and say "Mommy! Mommy!" over the monitor :( But you know what? He fussed off/on for 45 minutes night #1, 20 minutes night #2, and 5 minutes last night, night #3. All because he KNOWS how to sleep :) I also think it's his molars bugging him. Anywho, enough from me - good luck, friend!
ReplyDeleteMy only regret - not doing it sooner! However she wasn't big enough until about a month ago, skinny girl (where does she get that?!) :)
DeleteI hope it all went well! I am thinking about y'all, sending sleepy prayers and hoping for the best!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah, much appreciated!!
DeleteYou can do it and Natalie can too! I am thinking about you guys and I just know next week, it will be fixed!! Good luck!! I am hear for you if you want to vent!
ReplyDeleteGood luck! I sleep trained Tyler at 6 weeks and it worked wonderfully, Bailey on the other hand is a little more stubborn. I'll be checking back to see how it goes!
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